This is the truth though according to a few researchers from University of Chicago and MIT who did a study to find out what factors drive communication between men and women.
That is, looks really matter to men relative to income.
But wanting someone silently is definitely worse than having your friend want you. It’s a simple assignment that will help you decipher the difference between friend and lover.
I know in your mind you know the difference, but I want you to be aware of the differences so that you will never present yourself as a friend, to a woman you want to “DO”, again 😉 This list will help you be clear on how a friend acts vs.
If I had to choose between two guys: one who makes $250,000 per year and was just “ok” looking, and the other who makes around $60,000 per year but was “hot”, I’d choose the guy with the cash. They recorded activity from 23,000 online daters during a three and a half month period and found that: “For men there is no amount of income that the woman in the bottom ten percent in terms of appearance can earn to make men prefer her over women in the top 10 percent.
A lot of guys end up in the friend zone because they simply don’t present themselves as anything other than a friend.
Then, once they are in the friend zone, they get nervous to act any other way and then get stuck.
They get stuck because they don’t know how to change their behavior so that the woman they want will see them as something more.
Trust me when I say I feel the frustration of anyone in the friend zone.
This one was inspired by a guy that wrote into me asking about the friend zone and how to get out of it. 9) Willing to talk anytime when your friends is in trouble 10) Do anything for your friend (as long its within reason and within my power to do so) 11) Defends friends honour 12) Forgiving Characteristics of a lover/partner/sexual option 1) Confident 2) Shows Commitment 3) Crazy Fun 4) Very Unpredictable 5) Shows Loyalty 6) Willing to go above and beyond to prove I am worthy of her company 7) Be very proactive for her 8) Put a smile on her face no matter what 9) Defend her honor 10) Be very Challenging 11) Can connect emotionally 12) Brilliant sense of humor Great list in my opinion.
I told him that the only one who is responsible for YOU being in the friend zone is YOU. Do you see the subtle difference between friend and lover?