People who find themselves in this category of college students are starting to turn to online dating.
This is the culture, whether you agree with it or not.
However, there are college men out there looking for meaningful relationships whose efforts are deterred because the college dating culture does not align with their goals.
These men find themselves in situations where success is almost impossible. Should they wait until after college when dating becomes more of a possibility?
Or should they keep looking for the perfect date at their school to no avail?
In college, there is constant pressure to be the superstar and men are often worried about their reputation.
Pressure not to be known as the guy who cannot get his own date.
Pressure that other students might judge you as weird due to your unwillingness to adhere to social norms.
There are groups of young men and women out there who are searching for their “perfect date,” but in the current culture, asking someone on a date is awkward, frightening, and unproductive.
The hookup culture is approaching a near takeover of college life across the nation because it is easy.
Simply put, most college students go out to bars or house parties and find someone they want to hook up with.
If they succeed, it is at this exact point that the man might decide to take the girl on a date.