I remember one person in particular advising to “be a better gay,” and get laid without the getting-to-know-you process.
What followed was the suggestion to try “the apps,” which I admittedly rolled my eyes at.
Hook up apps like Jack’d and Grindr are an acquired taste.
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If I were rating my sex life in that decade through emoji, I behaved like the yellow one with his eyes closed and a straight line where a smile should be.
I should have acted more like a cross between the eggplant and the one no one I know uses to signify raindrops.
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